Making Personal Connections

Connecting

There is a need to address those who feel alone and isolated during this crisis. Who need interaction to help with the feelings of frustration and depression. If indeed, Service, Relationship and purpose are the things that give us a greater sense of meaning and fulfillment, we have to actively and authentically build those connections. A Sense of belonging is of great importance. Belonging + Action = vital Meaning.

Whenever a new person joins, this person will be given the chance to tell their story and why this work, this group is key for him/her. What section does he/she choose? And Why? Their input is critical as are expectations.

An important question to put forth early and to occasionally revisit–“What would need to happen in this group to make it worthwhile for you to keep coming back?”

For the many ‘doers’ that like to get things done and be efficient, it is important to realize that being ‘effective’ with people and their feelings takes time. This is a process — a vital one for us and our country. Let us allow patience walk with passion and creativity.

Remind ourselves of MLK’s 3 C’s — Compassion, Courage and Creativity.

Incorporate creative inspirations including fine art, poems, essays, and songs that support our work. Instead of being an MIA (in this case Missing In Action as far as ‘doing something’, it could be Mend IA—Mending/healing In Action. AIA–Alive in action. “Doom scrolling” is such a poor alternative. Can we help each other tap, as the poet/novelist Marilyn Robinson describes, ‘a reservoir of goodness?”

Is this group meeting your expectations? How do you define success for this group? For your participation? And what could you do to help it BE successful? How can we be the Signposts other need? Can we care and be effective and still sidestep the meanness outside and inside ourselves?

Recovery may not be linear. Issues and concerns not always resolvable. But there is meaning in the process. We will stay true to it. Share contact info. Be in touch over the month as much or little as desired.

If this appeals to you, join us! Bring your perspective and energy. Sharing stories –both spoken and written– is vital.

Resilience

Imagination

Strength

Empathy

Rising to Make a Difference For the Greater Good as Well as Each Person’s Well-Being.